geekandmisandry:

knittedbreast:

bleed-for-privilege:

sighsofthedamned:

geekandmisandry:

I like how when there is a character who doesn’t mention being gay at all, but is declared gay by the writer, people act like that is a “realistic portrayal” of gay people because they aren’t “all about” being gay.

Like, have you met gay people? We talk about being gay all the time if we are out and it is safe to do so. Realistic my ass, Dumbledore would be asking McGonagall if he was too old to be considered a “bear” or if his huge beard made the difference, but ok. 

Uh, yeah. And in real life, most gays aren’t cringey as hell like you guys. Normal gay people don’t talk about how gay they are 24/7. This is why nobody likes you. Not because you’re gay, because you’re annoying and self-centered.

This is why more and more gay people are embarrassed to be part of the LGBT community.

Gay people in real life don’t typically sit around talking about what they do with their genitals anymore than anybody else unless they are cultural gays (A.K.A fake gays who are only gay because they think it is cool) Most gay people I know you would never know they were gay unless you were told or you saw them with their partners because they are full human beings with full personalities and full lives with a variety of interests outside of how they got an orgasm the night before. 

Anyway, reblog if you’re a Cultural Fake Gay.

Octopath Traveler Liveblogging

Chapter 4 for Ophilia and Tressa.

Ophilia

With ambiguous musings on the status of the afterlife in this setting and an antagonist who draws on the same sort of duality of faith philosophy that I enjoy in the Warcraft universe, this chapter offers lots of theological points for consideration. I just…have a lot of feelings about pseudo-Catholic religions in fantasy, ok?

So yeah, Mattias is evil and this isn’t even slightly surprising, but what is surprising is that his master plan apparently doesn’t include reviving the fallen god or make any mention of the gate most of the other final chapters pivot around. He just seems to be siphoning off Galdera’s power via human sacrifice to empower himself. I’m still not why he needed Lianna, unless she has a special connection to the Flame as a cleric of Aelfric. Eh, details. Everyone learns a valuable lesson about accepting death and not following guys who force entire villages to speak in ellipses, and Ophilia and Lianna return home in a heartwarming series of scenes that reaffirms their sisterly bond. If that’s a euphemism in this case and there’s actually some kind of sapphic subtext there I’ll leave it to someone else to parse out.

Oh, and we finally get to see the pontiff! The not!pope was curiously absent until now, and I’m left wondering where he stays if he’s not in the main cathedral.

Party banter highlights: Primrose and H’annit are clearly fans of Orange is the New Black, because all the slashy bits with Ophilia trigger when she’s locked up in the town jail. Therion shows that he knows how to think like a cult leader, Alfyn contemplates mortality in the strange way the whole chapter does where everyone pretends resurrection spells don’t exist in this setting, and Cyrus attempts to make the staging on this chapter’s events seem less geographically convenient.

Tressa

The stakes here may be as low as Tressa’s always have been, but this is a satisfying conclusion all the same. Tressa learns what’s most important to her and shares her experiences with someone who’ll value them even more, and Ali comes back and continues to be a friendly, plot-relevant rival. As everyone has already pointed out the boss does come out of nowhere, but to be fair Esmeralda the knife-tossing thief/cultist/whatever gets built up over the course of the chapter. That’s more than can be said of Alfyn’s final boss. She also gets props for being the first Chapter 4 boss in a while to be even slightly challenging, even if it was only because her five-hit attack is really strong and randomly scatters its damage.

And speaking of Alfyn, his story feels marginally less disconnected from the rest now, yay! His hero was the one writing the journal Tressa has been following all this time, and while this raises questions about why Tressa never noticed what had to have been a distinctly medical bent to the writings I’ll take that over nothing to tie these two into the bigger picture. In any case, Tressa gets to return home with a priceless stone and an IOU from a billionaire, no doubt ready to stimulate the hell out of her sleepy seaside town’s economy. All’s well that ends well for this tale of ethical capitalism…although maybe not for Noa’s adventures, but I think that’s going to be addressed in a sidequest.

Party banter highlights: Applying Therion and Darius’s suspicious use of “partner” it may be inferred that Alfyn wants to bone Ali. Cyrus provides exposition on the Wyndham family, Therion discusses what I’d already done with his Path Action at the Grandport market, Primrose has an interesting method of combating stage fright, and H’annit likes to watch Tressa get excited. Ahem.

for the meme, 1,2, &8 ?

1: Do you ever wish you were someone else?

Not fully – I couldn’t imagine being not French or not (nominally) Catholic, for starters – but I often envy the wealth and influence of my ancestors, the sense of community and shared values of those French who were born and raised in France or Québec, or the greater ease with which women can do what I do as a demi-mondain. But of course those all come with their own issues: I could never have survived in Louisiana prior to the invention of air conditioning, my bitterness and haughty quasi-aristocratic pride is something distinctly Créole and would be entirely different had I grown up elsewhere in the Francophone world, and I actually like my own genitalia even if a self-lubricating orifice sounds incredibly convenient.

Not sure if that answers the question.

2: What is your full name?

Brian-Édouard Bellocq. My saint’s name is frequently anglicized on legal documentation because that’s postbellum Louisiana for you, though only other Francophones actually use it in address. If you happen to have come across my family name in association with a certain artistic photographer from the early 20th century famous for capturing the images of New Orleans prostitutes, he was my great-great-great uncle.

8: What would you say is your best quality?

Genealogically, I may wear the Gascon designation here but my mother’s mother’s people were more prestigious, from a notable Norman family with enterprises both here and in Francophone Canada. Coincidentally I’m also related to major local musician Dr. John through them, loathe as I am to claim someone whose stage persona has always been so…rough.

Physically, my eyes. I am complimented on them constantly. One man I was once heavily engaged with commented that it’s because they’re strikingly dark for someone with such fair skin.

Psychologically, my ability to adapt to adverse circumstances, of which I have unfortunately found myself in many.

9, 28, 41

9: What are you really bad at?

Topping, because I have trouble staying hard enough to go in and stay in. That’s probably some kind of erectile dysfunction, but since I market my sex appeal entirely around the appearance of submission it’s not one I especially care about.

I’m also bad at gift-giving, if you prefer something less NSFW.

28: Anyone you’re giving up on right now?

I haven’t put much effort into staying in contact with the Anglo ex these last few years, and there’s someone else in Texas who I’m increasingly less convinced is ever going to be a viable prospect.

41: Last movie you watched

Alex Strangelove, I think, and that was in June. I don’t watch movies too often, especially at the theater.

whit3noize:

unusual asks

1: Do you ever wish you were someone else?

2: What is your full name?

3: How old are you and how old do you get mistaken for?

4: Have you ever dyed your hair?

5: What’s your eye color?

6: Your opinion about your body and how comfortable you are with it

7: Do you have any tattoos or piercings?

8: What would you say is your best quality?

9: What are you really bad at?

10: What talent do you wish you had?

11: Are you nice to everyone?

12: What do you think about the most?

13: Things you like/dislike about yourself

14: What is your least favorite word?

15: What is your favorite word?

16: Are you more like your mom or your dad?

17: Would you ever smile at a stranger?

18: A reason you’ve lied to someone

19: Are you lying about anything right now?

20: Have you kissed someone older than you?

21: Do you believe in love at first sight?

22: Do you believe in soulmates?

23: Are looks important?

24: Opinion on relationship age differences

25: Would you date someone off the Internet?

26: Have you ever cried over a boy/girl?

27: Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?

28: Anyone you’re giving up on right now?

29: Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?

30: Have you ever liked your best friend?

31: How does someone win your heart?

32: What turns you on?

33: What turns you off?

34: Do you get jealous easily?

35: What is your definition of cheating?

36: Do you forgive betrayal?

37: Have you ever been cheated on?

38: Have you ever cheated on someone?

39: How often do you listen to music?

40: First concert you attended

41: Last movie you watched

42: Favorite type of movie

43: Is there something that happened in your past that you hate talking about?

44: Are you good at hiding your feelings?

45: Do you fall in love easily?

46: Do you think people say I love you too much?

47: What’s your favorite holiday?

48: Are you a forgiving person? Do you like being that way?

49: Where’s the most magical place on earth?

50: What’s your “type”?

I finished S7 this morning. It was alright, although I knew going in that I wasn’t going to find the Earth segments very interesting. Still a good season for most of my favorite characters, and I imagine great for those who like the show’s action sequences. Naturally, my opinion here exists independently of the fandom imploding in all manner of absurd ways, foremost of them the basic misunderstanding of what queerbaiting actually is. Maybe we can start using “self-imposed queerbaiting” as a more accurate term?

Sothe/Tormod, Cyrus/Therion

Sothe/Tormod – 4

They have some fun banter and the homoerotic potential is undoubtedly there – Sothe wants to have Ike’s babies and I’m about 80% sure there’s a hint of classical pederasty going on with Muarim and Tormod. We just don’t see them together enough for me to really be invested in them, particularly in FE10. If only Tormod and co. hadn’t skipped town after Part 1.

Cyrus/Therion – 6

That’s about the closet number I can get to express that, while I can see any ship with any of the Octopath guys working out in some way, Therion may be my least favorite as a character so I’m less interested in exploring his relationships with the others. Admittedly they’re the only ones without major (living) NPC hangups, although Alfyn’s gets a girlfriend postgame. Eh, this fandom is still young enough to where I could see pretty much anything working well given the effort.

~Send Me a Ship~

lalody:

I’ll rate it using the below system and say why I gave it that rating ^^

1 = NOTP, Disgusting.

2 = Don’t see it, Don’t care about it, Don’t know it.

3 = I could see why others like it but not at all my taste.

4 = I could see why others like it, kinda cute I suppose.

5 = It’s alright, I ship it a little perhaps…

6 = Nice ship, I ship it but as a side ship to other ships.

7 = I like it, would read a fanfic with them if it was well written.

8 = I REALLY like this ship but it wouldn’t work out in canon.

9 = I REALLY like this ship and it should be/is canon!

10 = One True Pairing (OTP). I will fight to the death for this ship.